Monday, December 29, 2008

My Christmas 2008




Here are some pics from the different places of where and how I've spent my Christmas. Doing Christmas Ministry at different schools,& churches, then as YWAM family we got together and share a nice meal together.


Hope and trust all of you had a great Christmas remembering Chirst birth.

Blessings
Adele

Information Please

( I got this via an Email, it had great meaning, so I felt to 
share it)
 
When I was quite young, my father had one of the first telephones 
in our neighborhood. I remember the polished, old case fastened to
the wall.
The shiny receiver hung on the side of the box. I was too little 
to reach the telephone, but used to listen  with fascination
when my mother talked to it.
Then I discovered that somewhere inside the wonderful device lived 
an amazing person. Her name was "Information Please" and there was 
nothing she did not know. “Information Please” could supply 
anyone's number and the correct time.
 
My personal experience with the genie-in-a-bottle came one day 
while my mother was visiting a neighbor. Amusing myself at the 
tool bench in the basement, I whacked my finger with a hammer,
the pain was
terrible, but there seemed no point in crying because there was 
no one  home to give sympathy.
 
I walked around the house sucking my throbbing finger, finally 
arriving at the stairway. The telephone!  Quickly, I ran for the
 footstool in the parlor and dragged it to the landing. 
Climbing up, I unhooked the receiver in the parlor and held it to
my ear. "Information, please" I said into the mouthpiece just
above my head. A click or two and a small clear voice spoke
into my ear. "Information Please."

"I hurt my finger..." I wailed into the phone, the tears came 
readily
enough now that I had an audience.
"Isn't your mother home?" came the question.
 
"Nobody's home but me," I blubbered.
"Are you bleeding?" the voice asked.
"No," I replied. "I hit my finger with the hammer and it hurts."
"Can you open the icebox?"  she asked.
I said I could.
"Then chip off a little bit of ice and hold it to your finger," 
said the voice.
 
After that, I called "Information Please" for everything. I asked 
her for help with my geography, and  she told me where Philadelphia
was.
She helped me with my math. She told me my pet chipmunk that I 
had caught in the park just the day before, would eat fruit
and nuts.
Then, there was the time Petey, our pet canary, died.  
I called, Information Please," And told her the sad story.
She listened, and then said things grown-ups
say to soothe a child. But I was not consoled. I asked her, 
"Why is it that birds should sing so beautifully and bring
joy to all families,
only to end up as a heap of feathers on
the bottom of a cage?"
She must have sensed my deep concern, for she said quietly, 
"Paul always remember that there are other worlds to sing in."
Somehow I felt better. Another day I was on the telephone, 
" Information Please."
 
"Information," said in the now familiar voice. "How do I spell 
fix?" I asked. All this took place in a small town in the 
Pacific Northwest. When I was nine years old, we moved across
the country to Boston. I missed my friend very much.
"Information Please" belonged in that old wooden box back
home and I somehow never thought of trying the shiny new
phone that sat on the table in the hall. As I grew into my teens,
the memories of those childhood conversations never really left me.
 
Often, in moments of doubt and perplexity I would recall the serene 
Sense of security I had then. I appreciated now how patient, 
understanding, and kind she was to have spent her time on a
little boy.
A few years later, on my way west to college, my plane put down 
in
Seattle. I had about a half-hour or so between planes.
I spent 15 minutes or so on the phone with my sister,
who lived there now. Then without thinking what I was doing,
I dialed my hometown operator and said, "Information Please."
 
Miraculously, I heard the small, clear voice I knew so well.
"Information."
I hadn't planned this, but I heard myself saying,"Could you 
please tell me how to spell fix?"
There was a long pause.
Then came the soft spoken answer, "I guess
your finger must have healed by now."
 
I laughed, "So it's really you," I said. "I wonder if you have 
any idea how much you meant to me during that time?" I wonder,
" she said, "if you know how much your call meant to me.
I never had any children and I used to look forward to your calls."
I told her how often I had thought of her over the years and
I asked if I could call her again when I came back to visit my
sister.
"Please do", she said. "Just ask for Sally."
 
Three months later I was back in Seattle. A different voice 
answered, Information." I asked for Sally. "Are you a friend?"
 she said. "Yes, a very old friend," I answered.
"I'm sorry to have to tell you this," she said.
"Sally had been working part-time the last few years
because she was sick.
She died five weeks ago."
 
Before I could hang up she said, "Wait a minute, did you say 
your Name was Paul?"
"Yes." I answered."Well, Sally left a message for you. 
She wrote it down in case
you called. Let me read it to you." The note said, 
"Tell him there are other worlds to sing in.
He'll know what I mean."
I thanked her and hung up.
I knew what Sally meant.

Never underestimate the impression you may make on others.
Whose life have you touched today?
Lifting you on eagle's wings.
May you find the joy and peace you
Long for.
Life is a journey.. NOT a guided tour.
 
With thanks to Heather Steyn

CARROT, AN EGG AND A CUP OF COFFEE


A carrot, an egg and
a cup of coffee... You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.
A young woman went to her mother
and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up.
She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.
Soon the pots came to boil. In the first
she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the
carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me, what you see?"
 "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.
Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She
did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of
these objects had faced the same adversity ... boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting.

However, after being subjected to
the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile.
Its thin outer shell had
protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When d
iversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?

 

Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?"

Think of this: Which am I (You)?

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a
malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?

Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The
bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain.

When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hour is the darkest and
trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity?

 Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

May you have enough happiness to
make you sweet,

enough trials to make you strong,

enough sorrow to keep you human and

enough hope to make you happy.


The happiest of people don't
necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

THE THREE TREES

 

Once there were three trees on a hill in the woods. They were discussing their hopes and dreams when the first tree said, "Someday, I hope to be a treasure chest. I could be filled with gold, silver and precious gems and be decorated with intricate carvings. Everyone would see my beauty."

   The second tree said, "Someday, I will be a mighty ship. I will take kings and queens across the waters and sail to the corners of other world. Everyone will feel safe in me because of the strength of my hull."
    Finally, the third tree said, "I want to grow to be the tallest and straightest tree in the forest. People will see me on top of the hill and look up to my branches, and think of the heavens and God and how close to them I am reaching. I will be the greatest tree of all time, and people will always remember me." 

 

After a few years of praying that their dreams would come true, a group of woodsmen came upon the trees. One came to the first tree and said,   "This looks like a strong tree, I think I should be able to sell the wood to a Carpenter," and he began cutting it down. The tree was happy,   because he knew that the carpenter would make him into a treasure chest.

At the second tree, one of the other woodsmen said, "This looks like a strong tree. I should be able to sell it to the shipyard." The second tree was happy, because he knew he was on his way to becoming mighty ship.

When the woodsmen came upon the third tree, the tree was frightened, because it knew that, if it was cut down, its dreams would not come true. One of the woodsmen said, "I don't need anything special from my tree, so I'll take this one," and he cut it down.


When the first tree arrived at the carpenter's, he was made into a feed box for animals, placed in a barn and filled with hay. This was not at all what he had prayed for.


 The second tree was cut and made into a small fishing boat. His dreams of being a mighty ship and carrying kings had come to an end. The third tree was cut into large pieces and left alone in the dark.

The years went by, and the trees forgot about their dreams
. Then one day, a man and woman came to the barn. She gave birth, and they placed the baby in the hay in the feed box that was made from the first tree.  The man wished that he could have made a crib for the baby, but this manger would have to do. The tree could feel the importance of this event and knew that it had held the greatest treasure of all time.

Years later, a group of men got in the fishing boat made from the second tree. One of them was tired and went to sleep. While they were out on the water, a great storm arose, and the tree didn't think it was strong enough to keep the men safe. The men woke the sleeping man, and he stood and said "Peace," and the storm stopped. At this time, the tree knew that it had carried the King of Kings in its boat.


Finally, someone came and got the third tree. It was carried through the streets, and the crowd mocked the man who was carrying it.

 

Finally, the man was nailed to the tree and raised in the air to die at the top of a hill. When Sunday came, the tree came to realize that it was strong enough to stand at the top of the hill and be as close to God as was  possible, because Jesus had been crucified on it.
 

The moral of this story is that; when things don't seem to be going your way, always know that God has a plan for you. If you place your trust in Him, He will give you great gifts.

Each of the trees got what they wanted, just not in the way they had imagined.

The Cab ride

The Cab Ride (I'm not sure who wrote this,but this was touching)

 

Twenty years ago, I drove a cab for a living. One night I responded to a call to a house in the less-affluent part of town.  When I arrived at 2:30 a.m., the building was dark except for a single light in a ground floor window.  Under these circumstances, many drivers would just honk once or twice, wait a minute, and then drive away.

But I had seen too many impoverished people who depended on taxis as their only means of transportation.  Unless a situation smelled of danger, I always went to the door.  This passenger might be someone who needs my assistance, I reasoned to myself.

So I walked to the door and knocked."  Just a minute", answered a frail, elderly voice.  I could hear something being dragged across the floor.

After a long pause, the door opened.  A small woman in her 80's stood before me.  She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie.

By her side was a small nylon suitcase.  The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years.  All the furniture was covered with sheets.

There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters.  In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.

"Would you carry my bag out to the car?" she asked.  I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.

She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.

She kept thanking me for my kindness.  "It's nothing", I told her.  "I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother treated".

"Oh, you're such a good boy", she said.  When we got in the cab, she gave me an address, and then asked, "Could you drive through downtown?"

"It's not the shortest way," I answered quickly.

"Oh, I don't mind," she said.  "I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice".

I looked in the rear-view mirror.  Her eyes were glistening.  "I don't have any family left," she continued.  "The doctor says I don't have very long."  I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.

"What route would you like me to take?" I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city.  She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.

We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds.  She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.

Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she softly said, "I'm tired.  Let's go now."


We drove in silence to the address she had given me.  It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up.  They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move.  They must have been expecting her.

I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door.  The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

"How much do I owe you?" she asked, reaching into her purse.

"Nothing," I said

"You have to make a living," she answered.

"There are other passengers," I responded. Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug.  She held onto me tightly.


"You gave an old woman a little moment of joy," she said.  "Thank you."

I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light.  Behind me, a door shut.  It was the sound of the closing of a life.

I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought.  For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk.  What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift?

What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?

On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life.


We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.

But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.


PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY WHAT 'YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU SAID, ~BUT~ THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL.

 

 

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Emergency Telephone Numbers

          Emergency

          Telephone Numbers

 

These are more effective than any number…        

     

     

      When –

You are sad, phone............................................................... John 14

You have sinned, phone.......................................................................... Psalm 51

You are facing danger, phone...................................................... Psalm 91

People have failed you, phone.......................................................... Psalm 27

It feels as though God is far from you, phone............................ Psalm 139

Your faith needs stimulation, phone............................................. Hebrews 11

You are alone and scared, phone.................................................... Psalm 23

You are worried, phone............................................................ Matthew 8:19–34

You are hurt and critical, phone................................................... 1 Corinthians 13

You wonder about Christianity, phone ............................. 2 Corinthians 5:15-18

You feel like an outcast, phone.................................................. Romans 8:31-39

You are seeking peace, phone................................................. Matthew 11:25-30

It feels as if the world is bigger than God, phone........... Psalm 90

You need Christ like insurance, phone.................................. Romans 8:1-30

You are leaving home for a trip, phone...................................... Psalm 121

You are praying for yourself, phone............................................ Psalm 87

You require courage for a task, phone........................................ Joshua 1

Inflation’s and investments are hogging your thoughts,

phone                                                                                     Mark 10:17-31

You are depressive, phone....................................................................... Psalm 27

Your bank account is empty, phone..............................................     Psalm 37

You lose faith in mankind, phone..................................................... Corinthians 13

It looks like people are unfriendly, phone..................................... John 15

You are losing hope, phone....................................................................... Psalm 126

You feel the world is small compared to you, phone................ Psalm 19

You want to carry fruit, phone............................................................ John 15

Paul’s secret for happiness, phone................................................. Colossians 3:12-17

With big opportunity/discovery, phone........................................ Isaiah 55

To get along with other people, phone............................................Romans 12

 

ALTERNATE NUMBERS

For dealing with fear, call.................................................................... Psalm 3:47

For security, call...................................................................................... Psalm 121:3

For assurance, call................................................................................ Mark 8:35

For reassurance, call................................................................. Psalm 145:18

 

     ALL THESE NUMBERS MAY BE PHONED DIRECTLY.

     NO OPERATOR ASSISTANCE IS NECESSARY.

     ALL LINES TO HEAVEN ARE AVAILABLE 24 HOURS A DAY.

FEED YOUR FAITH,

AND DOUBT WILL STARVE TO DEATH!!

I Am

 

While praying one day, a woman asked, “who are you, Lord?”

 

He answered “I Am”

But who is I Am? She asked

 

And He replied

 

I Am love

I Am Peace

I Am Grace

I Am Joy

I Am the way, the Truth and the Light,

I Am the Comforter

I Am Strength

I Am Safety

I Am Shelter

I Am Power

I Am Creator

I Am the beginning and the End

I Am the Most High

 

The lady with tears in her eyes looked toward Heaven and said, “Now I understand, but Lord, who am I?”

 

Then God tenderly wiped the tears from her eyes and whispered “You are Mine”

 

You mean something to someone when you don't think you are.

  

One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books. I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be anerd."

 

I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

 

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.

 

My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives." He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!" There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

 

I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where

he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone to private school before now.

 

I would have never hung out with a private school kid

before. We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends. He said yes. We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

 

Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the

huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said,

"Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles

with this pile of books everyday!" He just laughed and handed me half the books.

Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best

friends. When we were seniors, we began to think

about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I

was going to Duke. I knew that we would always be

friends, that the miles would never be a problem. He

was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.

 

Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation.

 

I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak. Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school. He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him. Boy, sometimes I was jealous.

 

Today was one of those days. I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!" He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled. "Thanks," he said.

 

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and

began. "Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends. I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. I am going to tell you a story."

 

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.

He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

 

"Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from

doing the unspeakable." I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment. I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile. Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.

 

Never underestimate the power of your actions. With one small gesture you can change a person's life. For better or for worse. God puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some way. Look for God in others.

 

"Attitude Is Everything".........By Francie Baltazar-Schwartz

Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"

He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed Him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry Was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?" Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life." "Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested. "Yes it is," Jerry said.

Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life." I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

- - -

Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body. I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"

I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live. "Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Jerry continued, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, 'He's a dead man. "

I knew I needed to take action." "What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets!'

Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead." Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.

 

A-Z of Friendship

Of all the friendship e-mails I have seen

this has been the best

--hope you enjoy it my friends.......

This is a test of the Emergency Friendship System

....... A Friend....


(A)ccepts you as you are
(B)elieves in "you"
(C)alls you just to say "HI"
(D)oesn't give up on you


(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)
(F)orgives your mistakes
(G)ives unconditionally
(H)elps you
(I)nvites you over


(J)ust "be" with you
(K)eeps you close at heart
(L)oves you for who you are
(M)akes a difference in your life


(N)ever Judges
(O)ffer support
(P)icks you up
(Q)uiets your fears
(R)aises your spirits


(S)ays nice things about you
(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(U)nderstands you
(V)alues you

(W)alks beside you
(X)-plains thing you don't understand
(Y)ells when you won't listen and
(Z)aps you back to reality


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